Earlier I used to get perturbed by a lot of things. Almost about EVERYTHING!
I’ve lost sleep over such ridiculous things/events/statements/reactions/people.
I have really realized that BINGE THINKING never got anyone anywhere. I have really passed sleepless nights over insignificant issues in my life. I used to get immobilized by the slightest criticism.
Thanks to my family and friends, I’ve come a long way.
I have stopped reacting to statements like- “you’re snobby”, “you’re laidback”, “you’re boring”, “you’re dumb”, “you’re weird”, you are this, you are that…Fuck you! I am what I am.
It is NOT my moral obligation to react to every statement directed at me. I do not require group consensus to be who I am. I will stand tall and do what I know in my heart is right.
The suggestions and statements of others have no power to hurt me. I have the power to choose how I will react.
Balls to all those who don’t matter to me!
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Monday, March 2, 2009
Men suck!...But canwe live without them!
This post is for all my male friends who told me that all I do is rant and complain about how men are stupid,pigs and all that and generalizing all men[Like i am wrong]....Anyways I know I pricked Your supah-inflated egos!...And Its not like youpeople leave a chance at doing that ...And after thinking for about 5 hours I came up with some good qualities men actually have!They are just 8 thought!..I cant help it really!
>>Men are too chilled out. Won't take care of their room mates and sit with them when they aren't well, like we girls do. A tsunami can't stop them from playing that zillionth counter strike game of the day at 4 in the morning with an end semester exam the next day. !!!...t0O0O Chilled out for their own good!
>>Guys always make the first attempt making the girl's life much easier. The ball being in her court, u see !!..
>>When a girl passes by, a guy will end up noticing her face, and if he liked the face, then he moves downwards and moves upwards again. Stares again. Chapter over.
When a girl passes by, a girl will notice her hair, accessories on hair, face features, face make up, clothes, other accessories like earrings,necklace, ring(if it's possible to see in those few minutes when she passes by her), her purse/bag/books/whatever she's carrying, then finally her shoes. And if her nail paint is visible, then that too :D
It's fun freaking boys out by noticing so much and discussing about it with them, isn't it? =)
>>Can they sound any sexier when they are asleep and you hear their half sleepy voice? I think not! :-)
>>They have a good sense of direction. Won't ask anyone for help, but will circle around lanes a zillion times but yes, in the end they get you to your destination. That is, if we shut up and don't stand in their way=)..See am not complaining about how immature guys can be!
>>Can act like real babies and stubborn and create a fuss over nothing. Call us drama queens, but they are no less!! :-
>>The presence of a guy makes a girl feel really secure. Not claiming that girls cannot be independant and cannot protect herself. We can Kung-Fu anybody's ass who even dares to stare.But a guys presence makes her feel confident like a feel good factor =)
>>They are good at gadgets. A technician cum electronician cum plumber at our disposal :D
They might not have a single romantic bone in their bodies. They might choose computer games over you. They might love the car,booze more than you.
But Eve settled for Adam, didn't she?And my mum for my dad!!!
DISCLAIMER:- I have written the above mentioned things noticing other guys and listening to the dramatic experiences of my friends. Have to mention this since my mom reads my blog and she will wonder what I'm upto in college ;-)
Not that this disclaimer will work. She'll still ask me what I'm upto in college =))
>>Men are too chilled out. Won't take care of their room mates and sit with them when they aren't well, like we girls do. A tsunami can't stop them from playing that zillionth counter strike game of the day at 4 in the morning with an end semester exam the next day. !!!...t0O0O Chilled out for their own good!
>>Guys always make the first attempt making the girl's life much easier. The ball being in her court, u see !!..
>>When a girl passes by, a guy will end up noticing her face, and if he liked the face, then he moves downwards and moves upwards again. Stares again. Chapter over.
When a girl passes by, a girl will notice her hair, accessories on hair, face features, face make up, clothes, other accessories like earrings,necklace, ring(if it's possible to see in those few minutes when she passes by her), her purse/bag/books/whatever she's carrying, then finally her shoes. And if her nail paint is visible, then that too :D
It's fun freaking boys out by noticing so much and discussing about it with them, isn't it? =)
>>Can they sound any sexier when they are asleep and you hear their half sleepy voice? I think not! :-)
>>They have a good sense of direction. Won't ask anyone for help, but will circle around lanes a zillion times but yes, in the end they get you to your destination. That is, if we shut up and don't stand in their way=)..See am not complaining about how immature guys can be!
>>Can act like real babies and stubborn and create a fuss over nothing. Call us drama queens, but they are no less!! :-
>>The presence of a guy makes a girl feel really secure. Not claiming that girls cannot be independant and cannot protect herself. We can Kung-Fu anybody's ass who even dares to stare.But a guys presence makes her feel confident like a feel good factor =)
>>They are good at gadgets. A technician cum electronician cum plumber at our disposal :D
They might not have a single romantic bone in their bodies. They might choose computer games over you. They might love the car,booze more than you.
But Eve settled for Adam, didn't she?And my mum for my dad!!!
DISCLAIMER:- I have written the above mentioned things noticing other guys and listening to the dramatic experiences of my friends. Have to mention this since my mom reads my blog and she will wonder what I'm upto in college ;-)
Not that this disclaimer will work. She'll still ask me what I'm upto in college =))
Friday, February 27, 2009
I haven't liked a guy in a long long time........ Liked in that way....!! You know, the passionate, firey, makes-you-go-weak-in-the-knees way. .......Liked beyond general liking.......Liked so much so that thoughts of him can fill up all the gaps in my every day thought process......... Liked enough to want to spend more and more and more time with him....... Liked such that I can feel butterflies popping in my stomach when he is around.....!!!
I am starting to get worried about myself......... No, the dreamy lift guy does not count....... He was a one minute thing....... And I never saw him again. Had I seen him and had we had a sex-in-the-city sorta ask-me-out-in-the-lift moment, there could have been a chance I would not be worrying right now. ......!!But it did not happen........ And I am worrying...... So what is the problem? Am I turning into a homo??..... Are my standards too high???...... Have I been looking too horrible lately??..... Is the wall too high to let anyone peek in? ?......Fine, the wall doesn't count.!!!... You need to know your way over and through it....!!. And it's not rocket science...!! Trust me!
I miss the i-like-that-guy feeling. I mean I have eye candys and all that....... But someone more real than that.....!!Urghhh!!!. I feel sorry for this blog. All it gets is my rambling and ranting and complaining!!....Poor blog.!!!
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I am starting to get worried about myself......... No, the dreamy lift guy does not count....... He was a one minute thing....... And I never saw him again. Had I seen him and had we had a sex-in-the-city sorta ask-me-out-in-the-lift moment, there could have been a chance I would not be worrying right now. ......!!But it did not happen........ And I am worrying...... So what is the problem? Am I turning into a homo??..... Are my standards too high???...... Have I been looking too horrible lately??..... Is the wall too high to let anyone peek in? ?......Fine, the wall doesn't count.!!!... You need to know your way over and through it....!!. And it's not rocket science...!! Trust me!
I miss the i-like-that-guy feeling. I mean I have eye candys and all that....... But someone more real than that.....!!Urghhh!!!. I feel sorry for this blog. All it gets is my rambling and ranting and complaining!!....Poor blog.!!!
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Monday, February 23, 2009
Thoughts Unleashed
I am caught up in one of those situations where I have so much to say but not the correct words to express my self at that moment so I just gathered when those situations occur and due 2 what kind off people and this is my reaction which i cannot give due to some obvious reasons!
1.People who think am materialistic:Hell yeah I am!...at least i have the guts to say it!...I cannot except everyone and anyone!And if u expect me to do that then u wont be special anymore!..ever thought of that! =\
2.People who think am rude:Be polite and use the word frank!..News Flash:Reality suxx!...But you got to live with it !..God made me that way my brain and mouth work simultaneously I dn't have a censor section!
3.People who think I am arrogant: Am not!...I just prefer being that way around you!...Reason:Your a low life!
4.People who dont have a life but pretend like its the world 2 blame:
Ya rite ! The worlds not to be blamed its you!..what goes around comes around
at least now get a life for lords sake!
5.People who speak behind my back:Wake up!...I come to know any way so just say it 2 my face!
coward!
6.People who think they will hurt me and get away:Watch Your back! M gonna get you today or tomorrow!
X0X0
SaMMy!
1.People who think am materialistic:Hell yeah I am!...at least i have the guts to say it!...I cannot except everyone and anyone!And if u expect me to do that then u wont be special anymore!..ever thought of that! =\
2.People who think am rude:Be polite and use the word frank!..News Flash:Reality suxx!...But you got to live with it !..God made me that way my brain and mouth work simultaneously I dn't have a censor section!
3.People who think I am arrogant: Am not!...I just prefer being that way around you!...Reason:Your a low life!
4.People who dont have a life but pretend like its the world 2 blame:
Ya rite ! The worlds not to be blamed its you!..what goes around comes around
at least now get a life for lords sake!
5.People who speak behind my back:Wake up!...I come to know any way so just say it 2 my face!
coward!
6.People who think they will hurt me and get away:Watch Your back! M gonna get you today or tomorrow!
X0X0
SaMMy!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Randomness!
Yup you guessed it i am god damned fustrated!
Just while i was lying on the cold numb floor of my room thoughts were racing across my mind! That time i neva sensed it was cold and my body had become numb ...All i could think was did he ever love my friend !...Yes my friends boyfriend was just another asshole!...And i have yet too break it to her!
Its like a stones put on my heart and to get it off i have too shatter her world into pieces ! I just wish i wudn't have too! All i know now is that guy who my friend gave the world too dint care for her not even in pieces for her all he knew was his needs!Selfish i tell you!
abrupt ending again just wait 4 the next part
P.s -If u read this tommorrow your lifechanges! You will never smile again and its my responsibility!
X0X0
SaMMy!
Just while i was lying on the cold numb floor of my room thoughts were racing across my mind! That time i neva sensed it was cold and my body had become numb ...All i could think was did he ever love my friend !...Yes my friends boyfriend was just another asshole!...And i have yet too break it to her!
Its like a stones put on my heart and to get it off i have too shatter her world into pieces ! I just wish i wudn't have too! All i know now is that guy who my friend gave the world too dint care for her not even in pieces for her all he knew was his needs!Selfish i tell you!
abrupt ending again just wait 4 the next part
P.s -If u read this tommorrow your lifechanges! You will never smile again and its my responsibility!
X0X0
SaMMy!
Funda No.1
This is one of my fundas in life
It jus ran across my mind nd i had to write it!
I believe in the principle of universal balance.every one has both sides of morality to them...good and bad. Its inevitable that they do. What mostly happens is that one side dominates and is thus more apparant ( sometimes both have an independant existance too, like the tale of Dr. Jekyll)
I will use the above statement to define dangerous people which includes me too. Yup, people we're generally wary of ( in good and bad ways both).
If a person's evil streak, however insignificant, is completely unobservable at all times ...or vice versa, it means that person has acquired complete control over his temperament. If someone doesnt get angry ever...or happy ever..or whatever...then they are the ones to be in awe of... the wonder can be pleasant or foul, depending upon the case.... like holymen, who are revered or terrorists, who are detested.
X0X0
SaMmy
It jus ran across my mind nd i had to write it!
I believe in the principle of universal balance.every one has both sides of morality to them...good and bad. Its inevitable that they do. What mostly happens is that one side dominates and is thus more apparant ( sometimes both have an independant existance too, like the tale of Dr. Jekyll)
I will use the above statement to define dangerous people which includes me too. Yup, people we're generally wary of ( in good and bad ways both).
If a person's evil streak, however insignificant, is completely unobservable at all times ...or vice versa, it means that person has acquired complete control over his temperament. If someone doesnt get angry ever...or happy ever..or whatever...then they are the ones to be in awe of... the wonder can be pleasant or foul, depending upon the case.... like holymen, who are revered or terrorists, who are detested.
X0X0
SaMmy
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Valentines Day !
Valentines day is supposed to be for couples....I think its just a over-hyped day!
if u hav to show your love why on feb -14 wats soo special it should be evryday!
Isnt it tht wat love is supposed to mean!...it should exist all life long not jus occur annually! I think its total emotional attyachaar!
Now lets come to the emotional attyachaar part!...It makes single people feel like the worlds not a happy place!..Nd i bet its just tht one day when we feel that way!
M not sayin this coz i dint hav a valentine apparently i did ;)!!....And this was one of my best valentines cause my best friend got a dream date and he is all happy about it!...My friends knew i dint hav a date so they made it all the more special ...even my boyfriend wouldnt be able to do it for me!..
So mayb valentines day afterall is not just for couples ! I would say its for friends who would love nd care more than any romeo ever could !
I just want my friends to know that they absolutely made my day!
I <3 U peeps!
Muah!
X0X0
SaMMy!
if u hav to show your love why on feb -14 wats soo special it should be evryday!
Isnt it tht wat love is supposed to mean!...it should exist all life long not jus occur annually! I think its total emotional attyachaar!
Now lets come to the emotional attyachaar part!...It makes single people feel like the worlds not a happy place!..Nd i bet its just tht one day when we feel that way!
M not sayin this coz i dint hav a valentine apparently i did ;)!!....And this was one of my best valentines cause my best friend got a dream date and he is all happy about it!...My friends knew i dint hav a date so they made it all the more special ...even my boyfriend wouldnt be able to do it for me!..
So mayb valentines day afterall is not just for couples ! I would say its for friends who would love nd care more than any romeo ever could !
I just want my friends to know that they absolutely made my day!
I <3 U peeps!
Muah!
X0X0
SaMMy!
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